I'll keep this post short. Because I'm only here to tell you that there is an art on not giving a fuck. Especially about others.
I used to be a person who's like an extermist just around 2 years ago.
I always cared about peoples political ideas, things they use on their devices, what religion they believed and stuff like that. And in every case, I just tried to prove myself right to those who opposed to me.
And I was a person who gets offended by someone very easily. I guess you got what I'm trying to tell.
I was a person who always cares about stuff and stuff and stuff .... After a point that started to feel like hell.
The turning point of my life happened when I broke up with my ex-girlfriend.
When I broke up with her, I decided to review my personality and my past and found out that how that habit of mine was turning my life into a hell place.
I never had true friends because of that. No one ever wanted me as a close person or no one has trusted me ever. I always questioned that, but never found out the true reason.
This was mostly because my personality. But that changed when I broke up with her.
The most important thing I ever learned was not giving a fuck about things that has nothing to do with me. Like some ideas, religions, political views and etc.
And that has changed my life entirely.
I used the sentence "I don't give a fuck" as the my main ideology for a year and that helped me to change my oppositional personalty against people. And that has allowed me to have close friends and trusted ones once again.
Also this ideology has even changed my view on life. Especially my own life and my future.
This is why I titled this post as "The art of not giving a fuck". When done right, not giving a fuck becomes an art. An art that changes life in a good matter.